Meet me…
The part of me outside of counselling
One of my clients said, when we first met, “Before I tell you about my secrets and feelings, I would like to know about you“. On the face of it that’s sounds reasonable. But there are many reasons not to disclose anything about oneself as a therapist; in fact it’s discouraged. But we are also told in training that our work is about the relationship and who you are – to be effective, you cannot hide behind a professional mask.
Most clients are not really that interested, but if you are one of the few that are keen to know a little more, then this page is just for you.
Outside of my counselling work, I find peace in the quieter corners of life.
I live in a place that feels like sanctuary – close to nature, where I can walk, slow down, and take space when I need it. I also love exploring new places, especially National Trust gardens or quiet towns, and firmly believe that any good walk should end with a cup of tea and a slice of cake. (Everything feels a little better with tea and cake.)
Photography is something I’ve always returned to – not just as a creative outlet, but as a way to slow down and notice the world differently. I enjoy wandering through cities and countryside alike, camera in hand, framing the details that often go unseen. I’ve also had the privilege of capturing moments at Pride events in Norwich and beyond – something that brings together my love of people, colour, and community.
“I’ve told you so much – things I’ve never told anyone else before – yet I know nothing about you.”
A past client after 18 weeks together
I’m naturally curious, and I enjoy reading, journaling, and learning – especially about how people make sense of the world and themselves. Music is important to me, as are stories, especially those that make space for complexity and vulnerability.
I live with my family, and I’m grateful every day for the calm, humour, and support they bring. Life hasn’t always been easy, but it’s taught me to find connection in the everyday and to hold space for both light and shadow in myself and others.
These quieter parts of life help me stay grounded, so I can offer the same steadiness and care in my work.